Care is the
common ground.

Our principles

Plant-based living and pro-vegan ethics: all beings are valued. Alcohol-sober celebration. No anti-social drugs. Body-positive play, curiosity, social inclusion and engagement with progressive causes.

Our shared agreements

1. Act with kindness. Welcome new faces. Be socially inclusive, curious and open. No harassment, discrimination, pressure or unwanted attention.
2. Only touch with consent. Ask before touching, hugging or massaging someone. Wait for a clear yes. A yes can become a no. Respect boundaries without debate. Clothing, silence and previous consent do not give you permission.
3. Keep it alcohol sober. No alcohol. No anti-social drugs. Stay aware of yourself and others. Ask an organiser for help if someone is unsafe or unwell.
4. Value all beings. Keep food plant-based and respect the pro-vegan ethics of the space.
5. Dress for joyful self-expression. 80s / 90s sporty, ski, beach and aerobics: colourful, sexy, sparkly and fun. Choose your own coverage and comfort. There is no required body type or fitness level.
6. Make participation a choice. Dance, rest, talk, watch or opt out. Massage is consent-led and non-sexual. You never owe anyone touch, conversation or an explanation.
7. Ask before photographing. Respect people who want to stay out of photographs or off social media.
8. Look after the circle. Your conduct may affect your own and your referrer’s future invitations.
9. Have fun. Bring your curiosity, your kindness and as much sparkle as feels good.

If something does not feel right

Find an organiser during the event. You can also use our contact form before or after it. We want to hear about concerns and respond with care. You do not need to handle unwanted behaviour alone.